I sort of get where you're coming from, I remember being younger and feeling annoyance at parents acting like their time away from work was more important than everyone else's

That's said, seems silly to bring a person into the world if you're not going to devote the resources (time) needed to insure that that person thrives

and its seems like a sufficient big enough deal that someone can devote a blog post to how they're going to go about trying to do that