Ah I see. Yeah, I guess I just think that for a language that's so dependent on FFI, instability in the ABI is defacto instability in the language as far as I'm concerned. But I understand that not everyone feels the same.
Almost every major noteworthy Python package uses the ABI, so instability there is going to constantly be felt ecosystem wide.
Python isn’t fully ABI stable (though it’s improved greatly) so you can’t just intermix compiled dependencies between different versions of Python.
This is true for many packages in your distro as well.