Hi HN, hairy question here from a throwaway.
The TLDR is that a startup I founded a little over a year ago is pivoting into a related idea that I don't want to work on but I believe could be a successful business. I like my cofounder, but I think I am an poor fit for the kinds of work this new idea would entail, I don't love the problem and don't want to work for the people who currently have it. I want to spend my time elsewhere. How do I message this without tanking my former cofounder and the rest of the team as they prepare for a fundraise?
We're early stage and have taken decent "pre seed" money and hired a good team. I was the main contact for investors during our last small fundraising round. My cofounder is looking to raise again for the new idea in January. How can I support them while leaving? On one hand I don't want to leave right as the raise happens as a vote for no-confidence and I'm afraid of the optics. On the other hand, I really do not want to mislead investors by omission and I don't want them to believe I'm bought in and leave immediately after the raise.
More color in case it helps:
At my cofounder's urging, I briefly mentioned this to an investor, and it seemed to tank their enthusiasm for investing in the next round. In light of that, my cofounder does not want me to advertise this yet until we figure out the messaging which is why I'm posting under a throwaway instead of asking our other existing investors. They have asked me if I could just stay on on paper and not tell investors or the team for now.
I have 10% vested of the company so far in shares. I have worked for free, raised, and put some of my own money in the very beginning, but I am open to reducing it, because I believe the road ahead for them will be long and uncertain.
I have discussed returning the remaining money from the first round to investors, dissolving the business, and freeing them to start a new one on a clean slate with the different team and different focus, but my cofounder is strongly against that.
If the answer is no, then message that to all investors (existing and new): We're pivoting, here's why the new direction is good for the company, and, to make sure we have the right leadership on board, you will transition out and your co-founder will bring in a new leader who is critical to the businesses.
If the answer is yes, think hard about what you want to do. If you love the team and want it to succeed, then gulp it, stay on, raise, help out for a year or so until the business is in motion, and then leave. DO NOT leave a month or quarter after the raise.
If you really don't want to be there, then be honest about that with your co-founder and investors and let them decide the best path. DO NOT lie or hide with investors. It's not only unethical, it could be illegal and they could sue you for misrepresentation.
Companies aside, money is aside, this is a testing time for your personal values as a leader. Decide what they are and stick to them.