I take it you don't appreciate my tongue-in-cheek advice -- I thought the Scarlett reference, profanity, and this-one-sentence-is-all-you-need simplicity would have been a dead giveaway.
I trust you meant well, but as advice, it doesn't help, and as a joke, it makes light of something causing people pain. So I only appreciate it in the sarcastic manner of my original comment: as an example of how glib the non-shy can be when discussing shyness.