How happy would you be to use a system where 50-75% of commands start with "debian-" or "ubuntu-" or "redhat-" or "suse-" (assuming that all patches have to obey this renaming rule)? As a user, I personally wouldn't want to use a system like that and I would switch distributions to one where I don't have to repetitively type out the name of my distribution into a shell.
I think you've completely missed the point. It should be very rare to need to ship a fork of a project to end users. Patches should first be targeted at the upstream project, but in the rare case where it needs to be used today you should follow this path instead of messing up the API. By doing this you can explicitly set expectations that the changes you are making are temporary and will be deprecated immediately once you get back in sync with master.
As an end user this is ideal, I can get a fix shipped today with the tradeoff that I will have to do a bit of maintenance in the future. Any other way leads to long waits, or chaos.
If you would personally not use a system like this and would prefer one that didn't rename things, even if they were missing the patches, I think that goes to show that the patches are not that valuable.
I'm not an open source developer, but it seems like a good solution is for the original publisher of the package to maintain their vision, take whatever feedback they deem useful, and ignore what they don't feel is useful. If RedHat or the other distributions want to keep maintaining their patches, let them; that's what they're being paid for. If it ends up fragmenting the Linux ecosystem, which IMO it does, then the distributions should do more introspection and cooperate more to reduce fragmentation.
While distributions give variety and diversity - sometimes a good thing - I would love it if Linus would get all distributions in a room and force them to agree on a whole set of issues to eliminate silly differences between distributions. And if they don't/won't agree, they don't get to use the Linux trademark.
It's human nature to think your way of doing things is best. But I'm not sure the multitude of idiosyncratic differences between distributions is really advantageous to users. It does lock users into a distribution, because as you said, who wants to go through all their scripts and rename every instance of ps to rh-ps, then go back and rename everything again when the patch is accepted.
I do think the idea of paying the original maintainers (from the company, not from you personally), has a lot of merit. After all, that's where the stuff was born; it's RedHat's "raw materials" supply.
