I’d like to add: Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves — reduce your effort by working with nature and not against it. Teach respect, self-respect by modeling them. Let your child learn who they are by giving them age appropriate meaningful choices. Create conditions for them to learn self discipline by following their interests and projects.
I also want to add the resources from https://www.handinhandparenting.org/. The techniques mentioned like Special Time and staylistening have helped a lot with my child.
Some suggestions:
The Gardener and the Carpenter
Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids
https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2000/05/the-war...
The Well-Behaved Child: Discipline That Really Works!
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen
Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child
And Baby Makes Three
The Rational Male - Positive Masculinity
Parenting With Love And Logic