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I believe the original post is referring to services like https://buymeacoffee.com/ :)

Interesting take, but I don't agree with it personally. Personally, messages like the aforementioned:

> Did you like this post, please buy me a coffee?

are completely okay! I don't interpret it as 'begging me for my money'. They are not nagging, and you do not have to buy them a coffee/pizza/metaphorical food item. You can go on with your day. But maybe someone thinks that the post deserves a token of appreciation, and tossing someone one, maybe two euros doesn't hurt. Just like tipping. Good = no tip, exceptional = tip.

> I know how much 4€ is, that's about two icecreams, or three beers. Off topic, but is OP finding these? Are certain countries in Europe really this cheap??


I’m not gravely irked by it, but it does sometimes distract you from the content of the blog post you just read. Similar to “you might also be interested in […]” footers and the like. I’d prefer writings to not be bookended or interrupted by stuff that isn’t directly related to the contents of the article, as to not distract one’s flow of thought from the reading.

If I want to donate, I’d look at the blog’s About page. Placing it on every article page does come across to some extent as trying to increase donations.


These "buy me a coffee" buttons make me feel guilty, similar to being shamed into tipping. I'll make a buy/don't decision when I see the cost upfront. Everyone makes choices on how they earn their living, I'm just saying these things make me uncomfortable and I wish there was a better way.

It's fine to say that begging is ok. I also think it can be ok. It's even possible to call this not begging if you believe that it lacks non-reciprocity (personally I don't think so, but anyway). But it feels like you have a very weird definition of begging based on the rest of your description.

> They are not nagging

Begging and harassment are two different unrelated things that are sometimes done at the same time but not necessarily.

See the difference between

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Begging

and

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aggressive_panhandling

> you do not have to buy them a coffee/pizza/metaphorical food item.

Yeah, that's how begging works. You do not have to give money to the person begging.

> You can go on with your day.

Yes, that's how begging works. If they had you at gunpoint it would be called robbing.


Not a native English speaker, so I may be far off on this discussion, but for me this kind of activity where you write a blog post and ask for donations is closer to busking than to begging.

I think that's certainly a reasonable view and the question becomes whether one believes busking to also be begging.

> I know how much 4€ is, that's about two icecreams, or three beers.

Yes this also stuck out the most to me haha. That's like the tax&tip for a single beer if you are sitting down to dine in NYC now


A bar in my Italian family's hometown sells beers for one or two Euros a pop. The gelateria down the street charges a bit more for ice cream, though.

€4 will maybe get you a glass/ladies' pint here in Ireland smh

Italy is a very economically diverse place. I haven't seen anyone sell beer at 2 euro a glass in two decades in my corner of Italy. The beers I was drinking last night were €5 or €6 (small northern city)

4€ will get you two (pretty small by US standards) scoops of ice cream or three beers in a shop in Germany. In a cheap bar, you might get a beer for 4€ though the average is much closer to 5€ these days.

Sounded cheap, but I just checked with my local supermarket (France, west of Paris). 70 cents for a 25 cl Heineken.

OP is off on costs, motivations and attitude. In a nutshell selfish person lashes out, assumes all side income is gravy.

Shoe on the other foot, some people are having major financial struggles... are they best to say "buy me a coffee" or "oh shit, help"?

Begging is so disgusting that even beggars are not happy to do it bluntly, until they're on the streets.


First they came for the porn watchers And I did not speak out Because I was not a porn watcher

Almost everyone has watched porn, especially the people who want to outlaw it.

I'm curious as to why? Regardless of the rest of his output or how you feel about him, this essay seems somewhat interesting (at least to me). There are many examples of where this applies and small teams appear to have an advantage (eg. Posthog).


Why is every EV these days an amorphous blob? Even Ferraris are being homogenised. Can't believe Ive designed this. Interior is okay, but not special; the exterior though... It looks like any other of the thousands of blob EVs in the market. It's actually so bad


well … batteries take up a lot of volume within the chassis and they need ultra low drag to compete on range. all the EV designs converge to blob


Well, TIL! Thanks for the info I actually didn't know this


Considering Ive is responsible for my least favorite era of Apple, I can believe it. They kept making Macs as insanely anorexic as possible at the cost of upgradable / swappable RAM and storage space, plus that failure keyboard (what was it the butterfly nonsense?) that was the absolute worst season in Apple history, I held off ever buying another Mac as a result till last year.


Because once you don't have a combustion engine there is no need for a hood anymore as your car is virtually just a skateboard with batteries at the bottom for an as low as possible weight distribution.

All EV designs should converge to monovolume or van shaped vehicles as it is simply the best internal space to external space ratio while allowing decent aero.


Technically it also means you can do whatever you want and yet still nobody does.


This is the one place where I can give Elon real credit. He made EVs popular partially by making them not look like shit.


He, however, forgot to upgrade the look over time.

I blissfully ignore the cyberpunk era.


The recent refresh of the Model 3 and Y did a lot to upgrade the look.


They basically copy/pasted Ian Callum design language.

Boring as f. imho as Tesla Never had their proper design language, the model S being a 4 doors copy of an Aston Martin DB7 and the other models very Ford inspired.


I believe Ive was tasked with designing the interior only.


He (his firm) did both the interior and exterior.


I don't even think it's a hyperfixation, it's just putting time into a craft (which is also vanishing these days)


The internet is what we make of it. Of course there has to be some realism about it (most services algorithmic by default etc), but I don't think it's enough to declare it's all over. Generally, yes, the internet has become worse, but some corners are growing, the 'small internet' especially-- if only in these small circles. Where you spend your time in really determines how you feel about this matter.

It's to be seen whether any remnants of the "old" internet come back to the mainstream though. I wouldn't know though, wasn't alive then. For anyone that was, what was it like?


Phish is an American Rock Band. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phish


Did a double take when I saw it said 'painting'. Incredible.



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